It's Time 12 Mar 2013 | 12:26 pm

Coming out - you're doing it right. 31 Jan 2013 | 12:19 pm

(Above) Good morning parents I'm gay. I've wanted to tell you for a long time. I thought doing it this way would be a piece of cake. I hope you still love me. I mean, it's hard not to love someone w...

The heartbreak of losing a friend 27 Dec 2012 | 08:42 pm

Today I met with somebody that I used to be friends with. After several months of not speaking, I decided that I needed to face her. I wanted to put her behind me, and not feel this sick-sad feeling i...

Before I’m Dragged Away from Dragging… 4 Dec 2012 | 07:20 pm

My first time, I was so extraordinarily nervous that afterward I could not remember much of what happened. I still don’t today. Entirely unexpectedly, I have actual amnesia. When I try to remember, I ...

And... Gay Women Will Marry Your Boyfriends 28 Nov 2012 | 03:52 pm

In response to the recent Gay Men Will Marry Your Girlfriends video.

The "Kill the Gays" bill is BACK, this time as a "Christmas gift" to #Uganda. Act now to stop it: 22 Nov 2012 | 01:53 pm

URGENT: SIGN AND SHARE A bill proposing that gay and lesbian Ugandans be executed is coming back to Uganda's Parliament - it could pass at any moment. President Museveni once promised that he would ...

Gay Men Will Marry Your Girlfriends 14 Nov 2012 | 03:29 pm

One of the better gay rights campaigns I've seen in a while.. For more from Oh, Her got to: www.kellyncoetzee.com

Lesbian Murder in Phillipi 13 Nov 2012 | 02:40 pm

A past couple of months I blogged about almost seven murders of LGBTI people, and today I find myself writing about yet another murder of a young lesbian woman in Cape Town. Saturday morning (10/11/20...

Why marriage won’t tie me down 5 Nov 2012 | 03:44 pm

I know many people who think marriage is an outdated, conservative, downright needy idea. Why do gay people want to marry? they ask. Not even straight people should marry. Marriage is irrelevant. It i...

Fairy tales for twentysomethings features lesbian love 2 Nov 2012 | 03:07 pm

Rapunzel cut all her hair off and everyone was totally into it but one unexpected consequence was that she kept getting hit on by women. After like the tenth time it happened she wanted to say to the...