Obedience 15 Aug 2013 | 12:42 am

Deuteronomy 8:6 – Observe the commands of the LORD your God, walking in obedience to him and revering him. We are, by nature, disobedient. Our bent is towards independence and individuality. Our broke...

Today 31 Jul 2013 | 01:17 am

God’s Protection 16 Jul 2013 | 02:18 am

God is protecting you from yourself. Have you ever considered what temptations, trials or tribulations God has already protected you from? Ones you never even felt or experienced. Have you reflected o...

Summer Vacation 8 Jul 2013 | 08:25 pm

Don’t take a summer vacation from your recovery! This is the time when it feels easy to kick back and relax, to just breathe and enjoy life a little bit. And we should do that to a certain extent. Fam...

3 Things We Must Admit for Recovery 26 Jun 2013 | 09:47 am

I’ve been thinking a little bit about the core beliefs of sexually addicted men and how skewed they are. Our actions and reactions to life are predicated on our core beliefs. If they are slightly out ...

New Life 14 Jun 2013 | 11:23 am

  Last week our 3rd son, Norman, was born. It was a whirlwind of emotions and experience. Shelley pushed Norman out in 3 pushes, 18 minutes after we arrived at the birthing center. It wasn’t easy; but...

Stonewalling 9 May 2013 | 07:29 am

Too many of us have developed the art of stonewalling. I call it an art because those of us who do it have typically crafted the skill with our own twist. It’s the technique we use to shut out any … C...

What Words Cannot Say 29 Apr 2013 | 07:40 am

Almost every guy I work with hits a point where it all feels like its going south. Every word spoken is the wrong one, doing empathy is possible but not very probable, and stringing together enough co...

Effective Accountability 26 Apr 2013 | 01:05 am

Awhile back I wrote about accountability that isn’t working. I included 4 indicators: 1 – You aren’t confronted when you don’t keep your word 2 – You go A.W.O.L. and nobody confronts you about it 3 – ...

Doubt, Fear & Faith 31 Mar 2013 | 02:22 am

I wonder what it must have been like as a 1st generation follower of Christ? To spend a few years doing life with him, everyday, hanging your hat on his words, then only to see him killed. Sure he tal...